Written By Ken Alexander “God loves you just the way you are, but He refuses to leave you that way. He wants you to be just like Jesus.” (Max Lucado). If you go into marriage with the idea that my spouse needs to love me “just the way I am,” you will be in for some surprises. Sure he/she loves you for who you are, and he is willing to live with the “good, bad and ugly” because that is…
If a husband wants his wife to only wear modest dresses, wear her hair long, not watch soap operas nor read sexually provocative romance novels, make sure she trains the children to obey her, and have the home picked up and dinner ready when he gets home, she should willingly submit to him. He is not asking her to sin by asking her to do any of these things. Wives are commanded to submit to and obey their husbands in…
Connie Hultquist’s journey of trying to win her husband back while he was in and out of prison is riveting. May her testimony encourage all of you who are married to difficult husbands. She died in 2021. Here is her story in her own words. Jim and I met in 1966. He was 25. I was 18. He was wild and so was I. When we met, he had already been in and out of prison for about seven years…
I did a poll on Twitter asking only men if leggings were immodest. Here are some of the comments from men: If I’m in line at the market or somewhere where there is a woman dressed in this manner, I look down at the floor and recite memorized Scripture to take every thought captive. As a pastor, I won’t be alone with a woman other than my wife. They are 100% immodest. Anyone who says otherwise needs to repent. You…
By Ken Alexander For those who read this page but still don’t get it, the page is dedicated to training Christian women in Biblical Womanhood. Not in theology, not in how their husbands should treat them, but in a Christian woman’s role as defined by God’s Word, along with other wise advice from an older godly woman. Yes, we believe definitively that a husband is to accept an even greater burden of sacrificial love and care for His wife and…
There are three phrases that we hear often that have caused great harm to marriages. They are “happy wife, happy life,” meet my “emotional needs,” and fulfill my “love language.” They are now all used by women to manipulate their husband into treating them how they want to be treated. In essence, they have become head over their husbands and control them through these phrases, then will divorce their husbands if they don’t submit to their desires. “Happy wife, happy…
My new cookbook called “The Transformed Kitchen: Recipes and Healthy Living” are for sale on Amazon. All of the money I make from my books, I give to a local Birth Choice that supports women who don’t want to abort their babies. Here’s part of the introduction: We must be as wise as serpents, women, and learn to take good care of our families. I have had many years of health issues; thus, I had a lot of time to…
“The American woman of today is not very different from her mother or grandmother. She is equally attached to the classic feminine values – sexual attractiveness, motherly devotion, and the nurturing role in home and community affairs. She is not a great figure in public life or the professions. And like most men, she is repelled by the slogans of old-fashioned feminism.” This was in “Harpers Magazine” in October of 1962. Women of this time were rejecting feminism of the…
There’s a reason women being “pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen” is now mocked these days. Women instead are praised for being in the workforce. The health of this nation has gone downhill quickly since women left their homes for the workforce and fast food joints popped up everywhere. Here is a great thread that was written By Casey Means on Twitter. Of all the unintended consequences of the feminist movement, perhaps the most generationally damaging was the implicit push…
Recently, I watched a video called Ten Keys to Conquer Crohn’s and Colitis with Jordan Rubin explaining how he healed his Crohn’s disease which doctors claim is incurable. (Remember, if drugs, surgery, or radiation don’t cure something, they call it incurable.) My mother healed her colitis after doctors gave her an incurable diagnosis too. It’s a fascinating journey he went on to finally find a cure and now, he shares it with others. The man who edited my first book…